Positive Parenting

By Dickson Tumuramye Several times, I have realized family heads introduce their children at functions or to friends. At functions, they invite their biological children but some parents don’t introduce the married children with their spouses. Sons-in-law and daughters-in-law are introduced separately. However, during parties like introductions, giveaways, and weddings, the bride or groom requests the parents to receive this partner as their own child and parents affirmatively respond in agreement. Such children therefore now become an integral part of the familial unit. When entering into a marriage, it is crucial to acknowledge that the relationship extends beyond the couple. The in-laws, once children of another family, now become part of your own family. This shift in dynamics means that they are now considered your children as well. It is imperative to recognize and embrace this new familial bond with utmost respect and understanding. Again some parents, despite their deep l...

By Dickson Tumuramye Motivating your child to greatness is a responsibility that falls squarely on your shoulders as a parent. As the primary figure in their lives, your role as their number one fan and cheerleader cannot be overstated. It is crucial to recognize the profound impact your words and comments can have on your child's perception of life. Your child looks up to you and is greatly influenced by your actions, whether positively or negatively. Even when they assert their independence, particularly during the teenage years, it is key to remember that your presence and the words you impart hold significant weight. Your absence may be filled with the resonating echo of your deep voice, providing invaluable guidance when they need it. This motivation for your child should be a constant endeavor, extending to all aspects of their life – be it at home, school, church, or in their pursuits of sports, games, technology, or any career they may aspire to. Your unwavering impet...