Motivate your child to greatness
By Dickson Tumuramye
Your child looks up to you and is greatly
influenced by your actions, whether positively or negatively. Even when they
assert their independence, particularly during the teenage years, it is key to
remember that your presence and the words you impart hold significant weight.
Your absence may be filled with the resonating echo of your deep voice,
providing invaluable guidance when they need it.
This motivation for your child should be a
constant endeavor, extending to all aspects of their life – be it at home,
school, church, or in their pursuits of sports, games, technology, or any
career they may aspire to. Your unwavering impetus serves as the foundation of
their world. This duty should be fulfilled daily, as it is an essential
component of their growth and development. It can start at home with a hug and
greeting in the morning plus a prayer.
Your firm faith in your children's abilities
cultivates a strong sense of identity within them. It is of utmost importance
to encourage in their areas of weakness, while simultaneously imparting wisdom
on how to overcome any obstacles that may arise. You must refrain from being
the first to express doubt or disbelief in their capabilities. Even in
situations where you harbor reservations about their chosen path, it is crucial
to approach the matter in a manner that fosters appreciation and encourages
them to reconsider your counsel.
Celebrate their achievements in any way
possible. By expressing your profound pride in their accomplishments, you
instill a sense of validation and reward for their diligent efforts. This, in
turn, motivates them to persevere even in the face of adversity, preventing any
inclination towards surrender. It is important to acknowledge that self-doubt
is an inherent aspect of human nature, and by providing unwavering support, you
can help them navigate through such uncertainties with confidence and resilience.
Tell them to always maintain a forward-looking
perspective and seize any opportunities that come their way. Some children
don’t believe in themselves. They think certain things are for some special
people yet they too may have all it takes. Your words of encouragement can
motivate them to come out of that self-doubt zone and take up challenging tasks
that can take them to a place they never anticipated.
Take an interest to know your child’s
interests/passions, gifts, and talents and as a parent, help them to discover
them. Support them to develop them and strive to become exceptional individuals
in life. They need to know that each human being possesses inherent uniqueness
and immense potential. The Bible says that “Do you see a man skillful and experienced
in his work? He will stand [in honor] before kings; He will not stand before
obscure men” (Proverbs 22:29).
Such can be ways of promoting their
talents/interests and telling them how they will be influential and stand
before great men and women in honour. This too comes with hard work and
commitment. The journey to self-discovery can be challenging without the
support of someone. That is a reason your child may need a mentor/coach who can
complement your efforts.
Always look forward to knowing their plans and
inspiring them to achieve their goals. Be their accountability partner and
continually stay informed about their progress. You don’t need to always
influence their decisions but knowing what is happening with what they do
motivates them. By demonstrating your enthusiasm for their pursuits, they will
feel that their efforts are recognized and appreciated by their parents.
The writer is the Executive Director – Hope
Regeneration Africa, parenting coach, marriage counselor, and founder – Men of
Purpose Mentorship Programme.
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