Positive Parenting

By Dickson Tumuramye The recent tragic incident involving Ugandan athlete Rebecca Cheptegai has once again brought to light the devastating impact of domestic violence, not only on women but also on children. Rebecca and her ex-boyfriend Dickson Ndiema lost their lives in a violent altercation, with Rebecca leaving behind two young daughters who are now orphans. This heartbreaking event underscores the profound and long-lasting consequences of domestic violence on children. Domestic violence manifests in various forms; physical, social, sexual, emotional, spiritual, and financial, cutting across all demographics regardless of age, status, education level, race, or ethnicity. It often occurs within intimate relationships such as couples, family members, or between boyfriends and girlfriends, wreaking havoc on marriages and destabilizing families. Emotional and Psychological Impact Children exposed to domestic violence experience a range of emotional and psychological traumas.

By Dickson Tumuramye In the realm of parenting, one of the crucial aspects often overlooked is the scrutiny of what possessions our children acquire. Whether it's the clothes they wear, the gadgets they flaunt, or even the miscellaneous items they bring home, these belongings can speak volumes about their choices, influences, and even potential missteps. The Power of Choice and Influence As parents, we frequently buy items or entrust our children with money to purchase items they desire, be it trendy clothes for a function or the latest gadgets. However, this liberty of choice can sometimes lead to purchases that do not align with our family’s values or expectations. For instance, finding torn and distressed jeans branded “damage” instead of appropriate attire may leave us questioning our child’s judgment. This disconnect highlights the importance of imparting and reinforcing family values regarding responsible consumption and the appropriateness of choices. Signs B

  By Dickson Tumuramye Parenting is an intricate dance of nurturing, guiding, and supporting our children through their journey of growth. One of the aspects that often gets overlooked is the manner in which we praise our children, particularly before their siblings or in public settings. While praise is typically seen as positive reinforcement, its execution can sometimes have unintended consequences, especially when it comes to children who may not excel academically or in other areas traditionally valued by society. Praise and Its Effects As parents, we naturally feel compelled to celebrate our children's victories, whether it's a marked improvement in grades, a stellar performance in a competition, or simply demonstrating a newfound skill. This act of praise serves not only as acknowledgment but also as motivation for our children to continue striving for excellence. However, the danger lies in how this praise is distributed among our children. Consider a scenario w